My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

Ok so the last time I had my hair cut other than a trim it was so short and it was such a disaster that it traumatized me for life. Seriously it made me like depressed and I wouldnt leave the house for like two weeks because it was so shocking and bad. Also last time I attempted to dye my hair (yes I was dumb enough to do it myself) a few months ago I was like "hm. I need a change. I think I'll take a risk and do somethign new!" .. I dyed it and it turned out like CRAP and now I'm traumatized EVEN MORE

So my hair is starting to get long and it's time for my routine trim. But this time I feel like I need more than that.. I'm just sick of having the same hairstyle that I've had for like 4 years. I do need a change in style and colour.

Here are some pics:

http://img392.imageshack.us/img392/6809/... (I'm the guy)

http://img401.imageshack.us/img401/6994/... (I'm on the right)

I don't know what I should do! HELP PLEASE!

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

Try straightening it (i know it sounds girly or whatever..but it'll make your hair much better looking..). you have half-wavy hair..and that never looks good (my hair's the same way :[ ).

uhmm you def should cut it short

not too short, but like....

http://hairshow.us/index.php?id=men%26amp;hair...

on that site, go to the 2nd pg of men's hair styles..the last one (the guy with black shirt, green eyes, goatee) that style would look good..just dont spike the back like heee has it.

oooh or on the 4th pg of that, the 2nd to last guy (in black and white, he's wearing white pants, white shirt w/ chinese writing on it) that style would look great. your hair is flattttt so you want something that will give it body..you'll need to pick up some hairspray and other stuff to poof it a little.

get a professional to cut/dye it!!!! bring in a pic of what you want too.

colors....uhmmm actually you have a very nice color!! its very rich and i like it. i wouldnt change the color if i were you.

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

try dis n see which one you like!!!

all de best!!!!

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

I think you should get over your fear of a bad hair do. No one really cares what anyones hair looks like anyway when it all comes down to it.

Good luck.

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

Well for a new look, i would dye it a little darker brown and get some more layers, like a surfer haircut. The color will go nice with your complextion and the cut will go nice with your face.

Best of luck.

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

I think that you hair would look good if you cut it short. maybe somewhat spicky and some blonde highlites???

My hair sucks. What should I do to it? I need a change?

i think u should dye it darker and then try a slight wave.